Bonjour,
First things first, take a deep breath because it may seem scary because you don’t know anyone or this is your first time without your parents connected at your hip, but it is the first step to the best semester or year of your life.
So with that being said here are five things I wish I knew before arriving at orientation!
1.DON’T be nervous!
When I got on the plane I was scared out of my mind. I didn’t know anyone, I have never flew alone, and I am just flat out regretting going on exchange. My nerves were taking over. I wish I hadn’t been so nervous because it was no big deal. When I arrive everyone was wearing the same shoes. No one had a friend group and everyone was open to meeting everyone. The outgoing talked to the shy and it didn’t matter if you were wearing designer clothes or a garbage bag, everyone wanted to know everyone. Within just minutes you will have made friends that you will most likely be friends with at the end of your exchange even if you are not in the same chapter.
2. It is okay if you don’t see the AFS person right away.
When you arrive in the New York Airport our sheet said to get your luggage then go to the JetBlue baggage claim to wait for a volunteer to pick you up and bring you to the hotel. When I got there there was no one there. I was worried so called AFS and found out that since I arrived during lunch the volunteer was on a break and will be there soon. So if this happens to you stay calm because someone will be there.
3. What to wear.
Wear something comfy. Don’t dress to impress because there are a lot of meeting and then a long plane ride. Also for the second you will be requires to wear the AFS USA shirt that they give you the first day so don’t over pack.
4. A deck of cards.
This is an option that I think would have been good. Even if it is just a old deck you can throw out later is nice. There was a lot of down time where my friends and I didn’t know what to do. Having cards would have been good to pass the time.
5. Let loose!
Dance like no one is watching, shout like no one can hear, and have as much fun as you can. Orientation is just a baby step out of your comfort zone and it is more fun if you aren’t worrying about being made fun of. No one there is judging everyone wants to be your friend and are venturing out just like you. Don’t worry about being weird because your not!
I hope this helps let me know if you have anything you are wondering and I would love to help as much as I can!
à bientôt
xoxo Gina